Friday 31 May 2013

Creative Fun


Milo's health has improved over the last few days so we've had more flexibility to do different activities.  We've been having lots of creative fun over the last couple of days and Milo and the Berry have really enjoyed it. 

First of all we made playdough in 4 different flavours/scents/colours, using the this easy 4 minute recipe from the Imagination Tree Blog.   

We made yummy pink strawberry  for making sweeties and cakes.  The Berry enjoyed wrapping up her 'sweeties' in cellophane twists.

Yummy rich chocolate flavour

Mint chocolate chip ice cream flavour .

My favourite was cinnamon and nutmeg cookie dough!   Mmmm delicious!



 Patting and baking.


 Proudly showing daddy everything she had made.


 Practiscing cutting skills to give everyone a slice of the cake.


 Milo enjoyed squashing and pulling the yummy chocolate playdough.  He even tried to taste a bit and wasn't put off by the saltyness!


 Silicone cup cake cases were so much fun. Milo got really excited with them!


The playdough activity made me realise that Milo is ready to do some sensory food play and this might help him develop his self feeding skills and hand eye coordination.  'Messy play' seemed the logical way to do this.

We had some left over spaghetti and pesto and I stripped him down to his nappy.


Loving dangling 2 hands full.
I've just invested in a builders tray which is so versatile for containing activities like this. We love it!  They use them loads at the Berry's nursery and they showed me this book which really inspired me to get one.



 Looking pretty!


 He loves his mama!



 Yumm!


 So funny!


 Concentrating



Ta da, spaghetti baby!
Off for some water play in the bath!


 Spaghetti was such a hit I racked my brain to come up with other sensory ideas.  This sparkly packaging was another ideal texture to run through his fingers and less mess for me to clean up!


 It was another hit!


 Hilarious!
Love those little toes!  Gorgeous boy x

Saturday 18 May 2013

I'm still trying to get up to speed with the technicalities of blogging but I'm desperate to do it. It's so difficult to know where to start with this blog as there is so much that I  want to share yet more amazing things are happening everyday.  There are still some posts that I know will feel very painful to reflect on and write.  My pregnancy journey for one and and Milo's cardiac surgery for another yet the post on Milo's feeding journey will make me feel full of pride for everything we have achieved.  But I thought today I'd just touch base with Milo's development and also a little bit about his breathing.

Milo at the moment is an amazing 8 month old who has recently found his hands and is loving exploring the texture of my face, my hair, silk scarves and loves to grab hold of anything with rings on.  He squeals with delight whilst rolling and yesterday he mastered rolling from back to front, which is an amazing achievement considering how poorly he has been.  Having down syndrome means that he has low muscle tone which makes learning to sit, roll, walk etc a real challenge and basically means that we both have to work really hard to help Milo achieve what other babies can learn with ease. Milo is a real trooper though and his determination to achieve is admirable.  Only 6 weeks ago he was having trouble holding his own head up without support so it seems as though he has come on in leaps and bounds recently.

I've had real fun this week collecting items for his sensory basket which is a collection of interesting household objects for him to feel and explore. Necklaces, brushes, massage rollers, ribbons, a pine cone, a mirror, to name but a few!  I'm finding it slightly addictive collecting interesting objects to put in his basket (it's actually a box that we use!) and managed to get quite a few bits for 10-20p each at the car boot sale at the weekend.


The other thing that Milo has loved to play with is foil blankets.  He squeals with delight when I lie him on one as he pulls it round himself and opens and closes the sides of it. We've definitely had value for money from it! We've turned his jumperoo into a space ship with it, cut it up into hand held shaking pieces and put a bit on his cot mobile to make it more interesting.  I love finding interesting sensory ways to stimulate Milo and I'm really looking forward to him starting portage soon as this should give me more ideas of ways to stimulate his development.





Milo's Breathing

Milo has had chronic issues maintaining his oxygen saturation levels (particularly when he is asleep).  Before he had his complete AVSD and PDA repaired  we weren't sure how much his difficulty was due to his heart failure. But since the repair it has become clear that the recurrent chest infections are a chronic issue and were possibly just made worse by the heart failure and pulmonary hypertension at that time.

This video shows Milo at home showing signs of respiratory distress including fast breathing (tachypnoea)  subcostal and intercostal chest  recession with tracheal tugg by his neck and head bobbing. Please if your child shows any of these signs whilst breathing seek urgent medical attention. Unfortunately for us at that time Milo displayed these signs off and on for weeks which made getting him reviewed a very tricky decision, having said this he was only actually allowed home for a few days over Christmas.  As you can see he was already on home oxygen at that time but he was readmitted over the weekend after this episode.  Even when well now Milo still shows some mild subcostal recession and we hope with time that this will improve.

  Last week I took Milo back in to the hospital to be assessed as he was showing signs of  respiratory distress (chest recession, wheezing, low oxygen saturations, head bobbing whilst feeding) and he had a nasty cough.  I have always found it difficult to gauge perspective on the severity of Milo's symptoms as at one stage his symptoms were very severe and this almost became the norm. I was pleased though when he didn't need to stay in this time but instead was given salbutamol inhaler with a spacer and face mask to use to help to open up his airways and steroids to reduce any swelling.  He had yet another chest X ray (the poor fella must of had about 30 now) and a kind nurse had to help to pin his legs down whilst I held his arms above his head, as bless him he just wanted to roll over on the couch!

There's been no sign of a bacterial infection this time and he's had no fever and stayed relatively happy in himself so that's great, although given his track record of nasty chest infections we agreed with the Dr to give him a short course of antibiotics to cover him through this period.   He's got a noisy area of consolidation in his left lung which needs me to do 'physio pats' on to help to break it down.  He always seems to have problems on this left side and the consolidation certainly isn't a first but it's also the side where he had his chylothorax / pleural effusion post cardiac surgery. Anyway he's done great since we were able to use the inhaler although being on oxygen 24/7 is always a bit of a burdon, and tricky now he's more active and grabby!  Unfortunately his symptoms came back later in the week and his oxygen requirement crept up again.  This time though he's sounded a lot more 'croupy' with a constant nasty wheeze, yet another chest x ray later which confirmed a small area of collapsed lung or consolidation and they've allowed him home again with more medication.  They've given him long term inhalation steroids to help with swelling in his airways this time but it's frustrating to see him struggle so much with something so simple as breathing. I'm amazed that throughout this whole recent episode of breathing problems he's been such a happy, roly, squealy boy!  Milo you really are a trooper and I'm so proud of you x


Wednesday 1 May 2013


Hello and welcome to my first ever blog, which I've been planning for the last year but never managed to find the time to dedicate to it, or the technical know how to get it started....but I'm giving it a  go!
My name is Laura and I am a midwife and mother to 2 gorgeous children; 'R' who we call 'the Berry' .  She's   4 and full of endless energy, we have lots of creative fun together which I'd like to share with you.
Milo is my 7 month old baby who has down syndrome.  He is an amazing little bundle of sunshine but he's had an incredibly difficult start to his life.

During my pregnancy Milo was one of the very fortunate babies to survive a massive 11mm cystic hygroma as well as the early stages of fetal hydrops. Once born he spent the majority of his first 6 months in hospital with heart failure, failure to thrive and then recurrent chest infections/ pneumonia from bronchiolitis and influenza b.  He went on to have a horrific ordeal having his complete AVSD repaired  and overcame many nasty complications.  I have learned so much from him already and I feel he need to share some of my experiences here not only to share how much joy Milo brings to our lives but about the difficulties we have overcome and how we managed it.  Several times over the past year when I've encountered problems I've scoured the internet in an attempt to find someone who has gone through something similar.  Sometimes I was successful but sometimes I wasn't, so I really hope that my experience can help others..